Burgess Cotillion etiquette

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Our Last Dance

After many wonderful years of dancing together, Burgess Cotillion held its final dance at The Grand in Long Beach in April 2026.

Thank you to every student, parent, instructor, volunteer, and friend who helped make Burgess Cotillion such a meaningful tradition. It has been our privilege to share the joy of ballroom dance, confidence, courtesy, and respect with generations of young people.

Although the Long Beach program has concluded, the tradition continues through Westridge Cotillion, directed by Robert Burgess.

For information contact:

Theresa Nunes
Coordinator

Westridge Cotillion
westridgecotillion@gmail.com

Robert F. Burgess
royace526@aol.com
or call 213.705.8477

Burgess Cotillion Program

Why Cotillion?
Where can you use these manners and dances? At weddings, bar mitzvahs, the country club, or on a cruise. Any place that has music and a dance floor!

We at Burgess Cotillion believe that our program will give your children self-confidence that will benefit them for the rest of their lives.

teens learn to dance and etiquette

What is Burgess Cotillion?
Burgess Cotillion Families Cotillion is four things:
1] We teach your children to dance.
2] We review some manners and teach new etiquette.
3] We encourage the children to make new friends.
4] We stress having fun in a structured environment.

Now let's break these four things down:

Dancing
We teach the three basic ballroom dances – waltz, foxtrot and swing – every season. We also teach Latin dances – chacha, samba, and meringue one year, alternating with salsa, tango, and rumba the next. We also teach current popular dances and classic novelty dances such as the Charleston and polka, or dances from the 50s, 60s, and 70s.

Manners & Etiquette
We teach our students how to introduce themselves, how to go through a reception line, how to ask a lady to dance, and how to sit properly. At one class, a table is set up for a demonstration on table manners. We also cover telephone, cell phone, and computer manners.

Friends
Students from many different schools attend Burgess Cotillion. So your children will be meeting new people. Our aim is for everyone to feel comfortable in a social situation; so we teach how to start a conversation and make proper introductions. We want our students to respect themselves and respect others.

Fun
We have dance contests, games, prizes with a ticket drawing at the end of every dance, and, of course, refreshments!

Dances
Burgess Cotillion has eight dances a season. Three of them are fun themes. We always have a Halloween party complete with a costume parade and contest. Other themes may include Hawaiian Holiday, Dancing at the Movies, Country Western, Dancing Around the World, or the Fabulous Fifties At our final dance each season, we invite all parents to participate in our mother-son or father-daughter dances. Burgess Cotillion for young adultsWe also have our annual waltz contests where trophies and prizes are awarded to the winners. We have experienced teachers circulating around the dance floor throughout each class. We also are happy to have Junior teachers, who are all former students, helping your children learn new steps. Parents are encouraged to volunteer as chaperones.

Dress Code
Boys: Coat and tie, hard-soled shoes, no athletic shoes.
Girls: Party dress or skirt and blouse and white gloves. No pants, bare midriffs, or strapless, please.
All: Please, no levis, levi skirts, or sandals. Exceptions are for theme dances only and will be announced when appropriate.

Instructor
Burgess Cotillion classes are conducted by Mr. Bobby Burgess, Cotillion Master. Bobby Burgess with StudentMr. Burgess was an original Walt Disney Mouseketeer, the ballroom dancer on the weekly Lawrence Welk Show, and a student and instructor of the legendary Call's Cotillion in Long Beach, California. Mr. Burgess brings his lifetime of dancing experience to his cotillion classes.

Boy Girl Ratio
Our goal at Burgess Cotillion is to have an even ratio of girls to boys so that every girl has a partner for every dance. As the classes fill up, it may be necessary to place girls on a waiting list with that balanced ratio in mind. We will contact you if your daughter is placed on the waiting list. If you find a boy who will register in the class along with your daughter, she will bypass the waiting list and be enrolled. You may also leave her on the list, and as boys are enrolled, girls will be called in list order.